Better explanations of love

12 Better explanations of love

1) Don't turn your back to love when it's already in front of you. Don't drive it away from you, because if you do, someday, you'll think again, why you let love flew when it was there next to you.

2) In Love, think things first over if you're sure about how you feel. Don't fall too hard not knowing where you will stand, 'coz it will hurt real bad if things don't go the way you want them to be.

3) It's an irony to know that it takes hours for someone to have guts to say "hi" to the one he likes, days to admire ,weeks to miss the person, months to love, but just a blink of an eye to say goodbye...

4) Go for the person who loves you. It is not wrong to love someone who belongs to someone else, but it is much better to love someone who could also love you in return.

5) Love isn't something we hold, it is something we set free. It's not something we just do, but it's something we don't imagine to be. Lastly, it's not something we choose, it chooses us...

6) The scariest thing about falling in love is getting hurt. The scariest thing about getting hurt is not being able to love again. The scariest thing about not loving again is being alone forever.

7) When you follow your heart, worry not where it will lead you, for your heart knows the way. And if you do get lost or reach a dead end, use your head to lead you back home.

8) When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight for the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook excuses.

9) It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than lose your loved one to your useless pride.

10) Love is .........
not "it's your fault ", but " i'm sorry ",
not " where are you ? ", but " i'm here ",
not "how could you ?", but" i understand,
not "i wish you were here ", but " i'm thankful you are ".

11) The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist with our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

12) If a relationship is truly meant for you, your love will find a way to make it happen, and God will be there to make sure it will stay .


"We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn't diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.

after a year...

free from stress... weee! :p

sleepless night...

This is one of the mornings after another sleepless night that I cannot help but ask myself, why didn't I have a good night sleep again? Then I would just joke myself and answer it with, maybe someone's been thinking of me all night. haha (ang kapal!). They say jokes are always half-meant. And maybe, just maybe, behind that joke, there's this wishful thinking that someone has really been thinking of me. Then a memory of someone from the past would, again, bounce in my head, disturb my sanity and make my day half-miserable.

Paano kung iniisip pa rin niya ako? Paano kung mahal pa rin niya ako? Naaahh! Tsk,tsk. It's just another imagination. Another day of what if's and maybe's. For the nth time, I've told myself that when it's over, it's really over! There's no sense turning back and even trying to pick up the pieces again. It's time to move on and face the reality.

When it's over, is it really over? When you decide to let go, do you really succeed in letting go? I just remember Sugar Ray's song: When it's over, that's the time I fall in love again... When it's over, that's the time you're in my heart again... How can you possibly say it's over when you're still in love with the person you said you were over with?

The hardest part of losing a loved one is to accept the fact that they're gone and might never come back again. There are things that will always remind you of your togetherness... the places you've been, his favorite food you used to cook for him and the songs you've both love to sing. These are the memories that linger on your mind from time to time. Because you were both in love before (or so you think), it makes you hope for another chance.

We tend to think that the person who left us will come back one day and would promise (again) forever. Romantic movies and mushy love songs only make us long for something we cannot have and for someone who cannot be ours again. It hurts to admit that we are just pretending . All the while, we already knew the truth but we ignore it. When the damage is done, there's nothing left to do but cry, to mourn for the bitterness in our hearts. Then curse anybody who gets in the way. As long as we still hold on to the past, the chance of meeting someone new maybe a bit far off the field.

The fear of trusting and falling in love again may also hinder us to grow and move on. We are hesitant to take the risk, afraid that we may get hurt again. Because of the negative thoughts stocked in our brains, we refuse to go out in our self-made world and deprive ourselves from new opportunities, whether in love affairs or career wise.

Let's face it! Betrayal can be anywhere and anyone can be a victim. The worst part is when the one we truly, madly and deeply love is the one who will betray us in the end. Then we are left with nothing but a broken heart and a wounded pride. Sad, but true. (Reality check, please...) It can happen to anyone but we shouldn't take things as it comes. An action must be done. We should take care of ourselves from the hungry wolves in the jungle. It's just a matter of survival. Stand up when you fall.

It's okay to cry as hard and as long as you want to, just make sure that when you stop crying, you won't cry for same reason anymore. Learn and live. Love is the most wonderful thing one can offer, so be smart enough to give the love in your heart to the one who really deserves it.

11 months later...

and then another comes...

As usual, problems come and go. pero meron talagang hindi ko maintindihan.It sticks to me like a chewed gum with glue and rugby. Sobrang ayaw nitong mawala.As time goes by, more dirt sticks to it, turning into a bigger piece of sh*t.why won't it go? ilang beses ko na itong tinanggal yet it keeps on stickin' on me again. why God why?...

pain... insecurities... battles...

The toughest battles we face are those within ourselves. I hate this feeling, the feeling of insecurity. I don't know how to battle it and it sucks. It's eating me up. It hurts BIG time that i feel this way, i don't even know the cause of it all i know is that i want it to go away... haiiii

after 10 months...

Love and Relationship 101:

There’s always a possibility that a person can get attracted to another.. it’s human nature, it’s not wrong but the reason why you’re in a commitment is for you to discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects.. it’s okay as long as you don’t nurse the feeling and won’t do something about it. The borderline between cheating and faithfulness is to recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you can get from the cheap thrills of attraction.

9 months later...

Love takes time in dealing with pain...

It's sad when people make promises and break them, when they tell us things and we later realize they're all lies. But its sadder when someone came, stick to his promises, never told lies, but because of those broken truths in our pasts, we can no longer distinguish lies from truth. *sigh*