Better explanations of love

12 Better explanations of love

1) Don't turn your back to love when it's already in front of you. Don't drive it away from you, because if you do, someday, you'll think again, why you let love flew when it was there next to you.

2) In Love, think things first over if you're sure about how you feel. Don't fall too hard not knowing where you will stand, 'coz it will hurt real bad if things don't go the way you want them to be.

3) It's an irony to know that it takes hours for someone to have guts to say "hi" to the one he likes, days to admire ,weeks to miss the person, months to love, but just a blink of an eye to say goodbye...

4) Go for the person who loves you. It is not wrong to love someone who belongs to someone else, but it is much better to love someone who could also love you in return.

5) Love isn't something we hold, it is something we set free. It's not something we just do, but it's something we don't imagine to be. Lastly, it's not something we choose, it chooses us...

6) The scariest thing about falling in love is getting hurt. The scariest thing about getting hurt is not being able to love again. The scariest thing about not loving again is being alone forever.

7) When you follow your heart, worry not where it will lead you, for your heart knows the way. And if you do get lost or reach a dead end, use your head to lead you back home.

8) When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight for the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook excuses.

9) It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than lose your loved one to your useless pride.

10) Love is .........
not "it's your fault ", but " i'm sorry ",
not " where are you ? ", but " i'm here ",
not "how could you ?", but" i understand,
not "i wish you were here ", but " i'm thankful you are ".

11) The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist with our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

12) If a relationship is truly meant for you, your love will find a way to make it happen, and God will be there to make sure it will stay .


"We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn't diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.

after a year...

free from stress... weee! :p

sleepless night...

This is one of the mornings after another sleepless night that I cannot help but ask myself, why didn't I have a good night sleep again? Then I would just joke myself and answer it with, maybe someone's been thinking of me all night. haha (ang kapal!). They say jokes are always half-meant. And maybe, just maybe, behind that joke, there's this wishful thinking that someone has really been thinking of me. Then a memory of someone from the past would, again, bounce in my head, disturb my sanity and make my day half-miserable.

Paano kung iniisip pa rin niya ako? Paano kung mahal pa rin niya ako? Naaahh! Tsk,tsk. It's just another imagination. Another day of what if's and maybe's. For the nth time, I've told myself that when it's over, it's really over! There's no sense turning back and even trying to pick up the pieces again. It's time to move on and face the reality.

When it's over, is it really over? When you decide to let go, do you really succeed in letting go? I just remember Sugar Ray's song: When it's over, that's the time I fall in love again... When it's over, that's the time you're in my heart again... How can you possibly say it's over when you're still in love with the person you said you were over with?

The hardest part of losing a loved one is to accept the fact that they're gone and might never come back again. There are things that will always remind you of your togetherness... the places you've been, his favorite food you used to cook for him and the songs you've both love to sing. These are the memories that linger on your mind from time to time. Because you were both in love before (or so you think), it makes you hope for another chance.

We tend to think that the person who left us will come back one day and would promise (again) forever. Romantic movies and mushy love songs only make us long for something we cannot have and for someone who cannot be ours again. It hurts to admit that we are just pretending . All the while, we already knew the truth but we ignore it. When the damage is done, there's nothing left to do but cry, to mourn for the bitterness in our hearts. Then curse anybody who gets in the way. As long as we still hold on to the past, the chance of meeting someone new maybe a bit far off the field.

The fear of trusting and falling in love again may also hinder us to grow and move on. We are hesitant to take the risk, afraid that we may get hurt again. Because of the negative thoughts stocked in our brains, we refuse to go out in our self-made world and deprive ourselves from new opportunities, whether in love affairs or career wise.

Let's face it! Betrayal can be anywhere and anyone can be a victim. The worst part is when the one we truly, madly and deeply love is the one who will betray us in the end. Then we are left with nothing but a broken heart and a wounded pride. Sad, but true. (Reality check, please...) It can happen to anyone but we shouldn't take things as it comes. An action must be done. We should take care of ourselves from the hungry wolves in the jungle. It's just a matter of survival. Stand up when you fall.

It's okay to cry as hard and as long as you want to, just make sure that when you stop crying, you won't cry for same reason anymore. Learn and live. Love is the most wonderful thing one can offer, so be smart enough to give the love in your heart to the one who really deserves it.

11 months later...

and then another comes...

As usual, problems come and go. pero meron talagang hindi ko maintindihan.It sticks to me like a chewed gum with glue and rugby. Sobrang ayaw nitong mawala.As time goes by, more dirt sticks to it, turning into a bigger piece of sh*t.why won't it go? ilang beses ko na itong tinanggal yet it keeps on stickin' on me again. why God why?...

pain... insecurities... battles...

The toughest battles we face are those within ourselves. I hate this feeling, the feeling of insecurity. I don't know how to battle it and it sucks. It's eating me up. It hurts BIG time that i feel this way, i don't even know the cause of it all i know is that i want it to go away... haiiii

after 10 months...

Love and Relationship 101:

There’s always a possibility that a person can get attracted to another.. it’s human nature, it’s not wrong but the reason why you’re in a commitment is for you to discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects.. it’s okay as long as you don’t nurse the feeling and won’t do something about it. The borderline between cheating and faithfulness is to recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you can get from the cheap thrills of attraction.

9 months later...

Love takes time in dealing with pain...

It's sad when people make promises and break them, when they tell us things and we later realize they're all lies. But its sadder when someone came, stick to his promises, never told lies, but because of those broken truths in our pasts, we can no longer distinguish lies from truth. *sigh*

just a thought...

Sometimes you just want to quit when things start hurting you. You want to leave everything as it is before the pain gets worse but once you remember how much you've prayed, how much you really wanted it, and why you were fighting in the first place, hope comes back into your heart and maybe, just maybe. it is worth going this far.

after 8 months...

work... work... work... and more work for my future! :)

my Wish Lists...

In less than 4 hours, i'm gonna be 26! greet me you gorgeous people okay? gifts are very welcome! I accept both cash and kind, and service won't be bad, for as long as the service being given is satisfactory and the one giving the service is within my preference. hahaha kidding bleh

MY BIRTHDAY WISHLISTS:

1. an iPod won't be bad. i mean, who doesn't want to get an iPod? aight?

2. that gorgeous huge bag that looks kinda like a bowling bag, but its more MASCULINE. (GOLA and GUESS has it.)

3. a box of Mary Grace BROWNIES

7. a digicam!

8. laptop. :)

9. the ADIDAS jacket i soooo want. (dunno the name honeys..)

10. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE. :) from my BABY of course (I really MISS YOU!)

11. Blessings from GOD

there. :) mwah!

7 months later...

busy being single...

this Valentine's Day...

Valentine’s Day is just about upon us. For many, this is the most romantic day of the year. What to do, what to do? Do we do the usual for our loved one(s), or do we try something exotic? Flowers and chocolates are the traditional thing to give and then a dinner out accompanies them. But there are ways to jazz up the day that really do not take much more effort but will mean so much more to your significant other for having put in the extra thought.

When it comes to romance, trying something different together is usually all it takes to heat up a hot evening.

Happy Valentines Day to all! =)

After 6 months...

yes, this is for you...

i breathe... yet lifeless... all because of you...

i thought i've psyched myself enough to block you out of me...

but guess again...

my brain can forget you, maybe put you in places i could never retrieve,

but my heart ceases to erase you...

even the tiniest details of you...

the way you stare, the way you laugh, the way you yawn...

i guess im doing an awesome job making people believe i'm ok,

tricking everyone into thinking "hey, he's so happy!"

well, im sorry,

but sometimes the roleplay has got to stop.

and it's all because of you.

do i hate you?

i guess not.

i cant blame you for going away like i cant blame the rain for ruining my shoes...

maybe your part of the story is done;

which i totally disagree on...

do i miss you?

every damn day of my life...

Another year... Another Start...

Oh yes, 2007 had been a year filled with laughter, fulfillment, pride, anger, envy, triumph and most of all -- LOVE.

It taught me many things in life. The past year had been very fruitful and meaningful. It might have been bitter, very painful. But it awakened me. It served as a wake up call for me. It made me understand the truth about life's struggles and how painful it is to have it all, make a decision, and lose everything that you once had.

Another year. Another start. I hope that God would always be there for me. I remember the footprints in the sand story, "...it is then that I carried you..." was a tag line that touches my heart and makes me cry at times.

Oh well, anyway, I hope we will have a happy year ahead of us. May God bless us and our families.

Happy New Year! Cheers! =)

5 months later...

I know you don’t love me like I love you,
and may never. But that doesn’t change how I feel.

Your presence makes me smile. Your laughter makes
me happy to know your happy even if you’re not
with me. But just because you don’t love me, doesn’t
mean I cant still love you.

i miss you so much..

it is me to blame...

Many think that love would always be enough for them and never realized the selfishness that comes in between as you strive to prove how much you love..
you just end up being selfish to yourself..

Too often.. i find myslef wondering how much change do i have to see
just to realize that the problem is me..
how much break ups and make ups do i have to endure..
just to know that the reason was me..

I made a lot of promises and was determined to keep them..
I've spoken such words that i tend to keep between us but how can i do such, when my very reason is somehow lost?? lost in a place where i don't even exist and just as i try to reach out and try once more.. i felt that i was the only one different in your world.

After 4 months...

I'm gonna love you till the end of time because if your love is all i had in this life well that would be enough until the end of time.
So rest your weary heart and relax your mind because i'm gonna love you till the end of time.

Love Failures... why?

Love Love Love Failures... why? bakit kaya dumadating sa point ing isang tao yung nag dadalawang isip ka? afraid that you might pick the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life. Have you ever felt that you've been so stupid over someone and yet we call it crazy but we never thought how stupid we become until we felt that we've been hurt? and how come after all the shits you've been through to someone, hurt you like no else did, still you say... "Mahal ko pa rin sya..." Sometimes it's confusing kung makikinig sa takbo ng utak or from the feelings we have in our heart... they say that " Love conquers all" Yes right! Sometimes, nararamdaman nyo pa yung tipong may mahal ka pero meron naman sya iba, or you fell for your friend but you're too afraid to let it show because your fearing of rejection. dialogue at the movie My Best Friend's Wedding which Rupert Everett said... "If you love somone , say it... you say it right then... out LOUD or the moment just... passes you by... " Meron naman yung situatiuon na, there's someone in your life and you could say that he's the one at masasabi mo rin mahal na mahal mo sya, but then you've lost your trust on him. Yung bunigay mo na lahat ng trust mo nung una, then nawala lahat kase nalaman mo he's cheating on you. dba masakit? Of course you'ver given him a chance? And now, telling you this promises that you've heard a million times before but then what IF he broke this promises for the 2nd time around? ewan ko na lang... ---> I just have to say we can do crazy thing for the one we love, except to give all of your trust again, for short it's really hard to trsut someone again once you've lost it. I guess it takes time. Pano naman yung situation na gusto mo makipag break? but there's something keeps you holding back, yung natatakot ka masaktan sya or masaktan mo sarili mo and regret it late that you did it? Sometimes we can't blame ourselves for ending a relationship, maybe sa side ng nasaktan masama ka at madali para sayo yun at nagpapakasaya ka pa. I don't think so, it's also really hard to breaks someone's heart without wanting to, minsan mo naman intend saktan sya but you have to do it right then because it's much more painful if you didn't do it right away tapos ikaw pa yung masisisi and sasabihin pa sayo..."bakit ngayon mo lang sinabi?" ---> partings NEVER EASY ans sometimes naman you've given all you've got to give and still it isn't enough? still it doesn't work right? or doesn't receive anything in return ---> it's the matter of giving , don't assume that you will receive much more of what you expect. Minsan naman two timer ka hindi mo mapili one over the other, mahal mo nga sya pero may qualities may qualities yung isa na okay at masasabi mong magkakasundo kayo in anyway. It's very hard to choose right? well, grow up! now you're being selfish. Oh well, you've gotta choose just one person and learn to accept the fact that "3 is ALWAYS a CROWD" and then meron naman yung situation na, minsan bigla mo sya maaalala, you know... your ex... reminiscing the all good times you've shared together. Somehow you miss him right? but then, there's emptiness inside of you na hindi mo mapipigilan and your thinking you gonna do something about it or not, because you might be wondering maybe he's happy with someone else arms na or scared to lose their pride for both parties.

How about sa mga taong hurt or bigo? without absolutely no idea why they've been hurt and maybe still figuring out what's the reason of their break up? We usually tend to smile but behind the curtains we're dying. Sometimes, dinadaan na lang sa paglalasing with fellow barkada's or get out of town and do something as a relief to your self for awhile. I believe that's how it goes. Anyway, don't worry there's someone out there who'll be the one to ease your pain away, just widen up your eyes or you could use your high resolution eye glasses because that might help perhaps... hehe... :p. You'll never know the person beside you in an mrt/bus might be the one who can spend the rest of your life with... maybe sooner than later... i'm sure they will... they'll probably soon realized what they've lost and found... too bad palagi talaga nasa huli ang pagsisisi... it's not your loss... it's THEIRS... madami pa dyan right? ---> We truly never know what we've got until it's gone and we also never thought that... "The only person who can make us happy is the same person who makes us cry" Okay let put it this way hindi ka masasaktan kugn hindi ka nagmamahal. Sometime we'd prefer to be hurt pa nga right? In our point of our lives we should be so lucky to have someone who'll cherish us for the rest of our lives. ---> Lessons of love could bring us so much pain. I guess God just let's us meet few people that goes in and out in our lives and those times might be the unforgettable ones, taught us lessons in this insane world of Love. ---> The more we've been hurt, the more we gain the lessons but one thing is for sure... "we'll know how to get up again when we fall" Don't be afraid to give your self a chance to love again. Don't look back and look for the qualities from the past love to someone new. We're different kinds of people and has different personalities but who knows there's much more you can see in this new person, that you can never think of.

Ending relationships doens't mean it's the end of the story in the book but it's the beginning of a new chapter in life. Love never kept us promise with a word such as "FOREVER." It's not just a word taht easy to say . It's also a place for us to get there . ---> Actions speaks louder than words. Now as i sat down infront of my computer, mind spinning, bored, lack of sleep, listening to the music. These are the some situations in Love. I can't say that i'm the one of these people who knows all shits about love? uhm... maybe somehow. I'm just saying this because i've learnt from them alot and i'll cherish this lessons that left this scars from my past, lessons that will teach me over and over again. I guess it's truly in the matter of our choice in life. Love is feeling like your in heaven, but it can also hurt like hell. But one thing is for sure, you'll learn to let go and love someone else more than you ever did before, this time it might be extra special, do something wonderful this day fot it will never come again. Don't live a life with a regret- take chances... make mistakes. Happiness- and that's the only thing you can give your self anyway.

3 months later...

3 months later nothing has really changed with the way i feel for you.We might not be close that anyomore and we might not talk to each other much... We might not hug and kiss anymore and we might not keep in touch... We might look at the floor instead of each other but then i still love you... You will always have a special place in my heart.

Greatest Test of Love...

The most important, most critical component in successful loving is commitment. Not love. It's easy to love without commitment. People do it all the time. Easy to love, to give of oneself for a while. But commitment implies bonding in such a way that one promises to keep the fires of love burning indefinitely. It also means shutting one's heart to the possibility of loving another who might even be more attractive, even more lovable. Not easy. This is why solid commitments are not at all as common as we are led to believe. In fact, more often than not, I think that the commitment two lovers make are not equal. What I mean is that the commitment of one might be a whole lot more or a whole lot less than the partner's. We see it all the time. One loves more than the other and is more committed than the other. We have often seen lopsided love relationships where one partner is giving so much more to the relationship than the other. But writers and poets seem to always indicate that love isn't just a two-way street, but an equal two-way street. That hardly ever happens. It is impossible to determine exactly how much a man loves a woman or how much a woman cares for a man. Love cannot be measured and that can be a huge problem. You can love someone and tell him "I love you" and you're telling the truth. But how much do you love him? Enough to let him court you? Enough to marry ? Enough to die? THE GREATEST TEST OF TRUE LOVE is commitment. And the greatest indicator of deep love is deep commitment. I have heard people say all the right words, make all the right moves and pledge undying love, only to walk away weeks or months later. Were they in love? Sure they were. But not enough to allow them to hold strong in their love. Not enough to keep a commitment regardless of the pain. Lover gets this sinking feeling when there is a sense that one is more committed than the other. When one is giving a lot more than one is receiving.